However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), prideful, self-deceptive Twos become more self-nurturing and emotionally aware, like healthy Fours. When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), needy Twos suddenly become aggressive and dominating at Eight. Key Motivations: Want to be loved, to express their feelings for others, to be needed and appreciated, to get others to respond to them, to vindicate their claims about themselves.
At their Best: unselfish and altruistic, they have unconditional love for others.īasic Fear: Of being unwanted, unworthy of being lovedĮnneagram Two with a Three-Wing: 'The Host/Hostess' They typically have problems with possessiveness and with acknowledging their own needs. They are well-meaning and driven to be close to others, but can slip into doing things for others in order to be needed.
They are friendly, generous, and self-sacrificing, but can also be sentimental, flattering, and people-pleasing. Twos are empathetic, sincere, and warm-hearted.